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Christmas Part 4: Mass and feasting with family and love

Christmas in my family is the same practically every year. At the stroke of midnight, we will be singing along to Christmas carols in church and celebrating the birth of Jesus with a solemn and beautiful mass. It’s our tradition, and one I cherish.

Christmas with Family

Also just like last year, we had a sumptuous catered dinner buffet spread and the kitchen was a hive of activity as the mothers whipped up some of their own specialities to complement the spread. It was a day of feasting and more feasting.

I think L’s tummy is still recovering from that day of stuffing (or it could be the Thai food we had two days ago). We had a good time though.

Christmas with Love

How blessed are we :)

Hope all of you had a Christmas filled with love, food and gifts too! xx

Christmas Part 3: Happy exchanges with Cindy & Tricia

My Tweedledee (Cindy) got me a very thoughtful and useful Christmas gift. She passed it to me when we attended a copy-writing course together two weeks ago because she was afraid I would go and get one myself – a classy wedding planner from Kikki.K.

Christmas Gift From Cindy

She’s right. It was definitely something I would have gotten on my own. I LOVE IT. (Thanks dear, you know me so well!)

We did a post-Christmas dinner at Watami this week and exchanged gifts. Don’t think we were late since Christmas lasts 12 days, no?

It was a dinner of happy exchanges. I updated them on my wedding preparations and shared some ideas with Trish since she would also be getting married soon. There was also an announcement and excited squeals all around (will share more once I get the go ahead from the Tweedledee).

Christmas with Cindy & Tricia - Watami

I think I’m in a happy bubble :)

Christmas Part 2: Yakitori with Antoinettes

I started out writing for no one in particular but there was a loyal group of friends who made it a point to read what I wrote (right about five or six) everyday. Over time, more friends started finding out about my blog and reading, but little did I expect that through this space of mine I would meet lovely fellow bloggers whom I would become fast friends with.

They have been labelled ‘The Antoinettes’ on this blog because our first meeting was at Antoinette at Mandarin Gallery. But now I think they should be re-labelled ‘The H Girls’ because these girls are not only hot, they are so very helpful (even before we met in person), humorous and honest.

When Christmas came, we organised a dinner to introduce the other halves (whom we’ve been reading so much about) and do a gift exchange.

Christmas with Antoinettes - Kazu

I suggested we go to Kazu because I found out Evonne likes foie gras and if I know any place that serves awesome fat liver, it’s Kazu. I was also craving their wagyu beef sticks.

After dinner, we proceeded to Anne’s new place for an impromptu house warming (very impressive décor and furnishing) and did our gift exchange at the same time.

Christmas with Antoinettes - Gift Exchange at Anne's

We picked our Secret Santa among ourselves and I drew April who gave me ‘The Card Game for Lovers’ and wished me a kinky Christmas! (I probably forgot to mention horny earlier :P)

We had a good evening and I’m really happy that what started out as a place to store memories has lead to this budding friendship :)

Pity we didn’t manage to get a picture of the boys but we’ll be meeting again for a Chinese New Year reunion steamboat lunch soon so we can do it then. Looking forward.

P.S. Stole both photos in this entry from Evonne.

Christmas Part 1: Cookin’ and rippin’ with the Bitches

Every year for as long as I can remember, the girls gather for a meal at a nice restaurant and exchange gifts amidst chatter and laughter. This year, since Adel has just moved into her new place, she very generously offered to host.

A week before the gathering, we communicated furiously on Whatsapp on who’s to bring/collect/buy what and our food options – to do a potluck or to cook? We eventually decided that since none of us were very good cooks (okay, at least I wasn’t), we would order one of those Christmas sets from Cold Storage and take it from there.

Thankfully, we had Diana (the mother of the bunch) and Diane (who has quite a bit of kitchen experience on her own) because what we got was a whole turkey wrapped in foil and plastic. Errr, hi turkey? I had absolutely no idea how to start. Diane, without hesitation, requested for a knife and worked her way through the turkey like a pro, with Diana as the able helper.

And what did I do? I tried to make myself useful by doing a bit of washing and passing of utensils to the house chefs. Maddie and myself also transferred packed lasagne and Shepard’s pie onto a microwavable tray and popped it into the microwave. There, easy.

I think seeing the pros cutting up the turkey gave L a bit of confidence because he decided he wanted to help with the slicing of the ham. I was very hesitant and Diana stepped in to save the day again.

Christmas with the Bitches - Food

There was enough food to allow us a few rounds of stuffing before we retired to the couch to join Josline (who was singing and dancing to church songs).

Then it was time for our gift exchange. This year’s was a tad more special because there were enough husbands/boyfriends around to do their very own gift exchange (L got a wine globlet and Royce chocolates from Josh) and all of us got gifts for everyone else despite the fact that we were supposed to be Secret Santa to only one person. We tore open wrappers, ate chocolates, giggled a lot, and were brimming with armfuls of gifts by the end of the session, pleased as kids on Christmas morning.

Christmas with the Bitches - Gift Exchange + Games

And how can I forget Josh’s surprise for Adel and his touching speech which made a few of us bawl like babies. I was crying big, fat tears and desperately trying to dig out tissue lest my mascara ran, but it ran anyway. They’ve come a long way – with two adorable kids now – and I couldn’t be happier or feel more blessed that one of my bestest friend is married to such a sweet and humorous man :’)

Our hosts even took the effort to organise some childhood games. L and I managed to play a few rounds of the very stressful Police & Thief before taking off for Kevin and Jenn’s party.

What a great way to kickstart the Christmas weekend!

Time to catch up

I’ve been a little inert about blogging because the colour balance on my camera is a little weird and all my pictures have turned out very yellowish. And so, I’ve been taking pictures with my iPhone but they turn out quite blurry and grainy. I mean, if I’m going to shove photos into people’s screens they’d have to at least be of decent colour and resolution, right? (Sigh, I need a new camera.)

But we’re at the final week of this eventful year and there are backdated entries to be written, reflections to be shared and resolutions to be made. Got L to help me pick a new font for the blog and am now motivated to write again :D

Happy holidays

Merry Christmas

No procrastinating

I had my first wedding-related nightmare last night.

I dreamt that by the wedding day, I had yet to make/select my wedding dress and evening gown. So that afternoon, five hours before the banquet, I was at this tacky-looking bridal store begging them to please make/sell me a dress as quickly as possible. I also had a hard time picking from their off-the-rack evening gowns cos they all looked like getai outfits :’(

(Don’t ask me what happened that morning, dreams are bizarre like that.)

Thankfully it was just a dream because I don’t believe anyone in real life would be as heartless as to tell me, “Oh, it’s really a rush. Let us think about it”, given the situation.

But then again, I think it was actually to give this ‘Chief Procrastinating Officer’ or ‘Queen of Procrastinators’ (as my fiancé labels me, hur) a strong warning – to not leave anything at all to the last minute.

I promise I won’t. Not if I can help it.

P.S. We’re very close to securing a venue – will share more once it’s confirmed :)

Random thoughts at midnight

  1. Ecks, I am very behind on my Christmas shopping and gift-wrapping.
  2. L has been doing an amazing job contacting and following-up with hotels because I’m so busy at work and I’m very grateful. He has compiled this crazy detailed (OCD-type) spreadsheet helping us compare every single item in each short-listed hotel’s wedding banquet package. So, my friends, you know who to go to now for information on diamonds and hotel packages ;)
  3. Can’t wait for the Bitches’ Christmas gathering next Friday.
  4. Haven’t done a stock take but this year sure was eventful.
  5. I need to complete Perth and Malacca travelogues before the year ends.
  6. If I don’t get my me-time, I get grumpy. Very grumpy.
  7. Attended a two-day copy-writing course with Cindy and it felt like school days again.
  8. My first Christmas gift was a lovely wedding planner from Kikki.K from Cindy!
  9. I’ve been so busy I haven’t shopped online in weeks – that feels like yonks.
  10. I’m sleepy. Goodnight.

Dinner with uni mates

Dinner with Uni Mates

Filling dinner and Ben & Jerry’s after – YUMMEH

White by Vera Wang 2011

White by Vera Wang 2011
Taffeta Ball Gown with Asymmetrically Draped Bodice
Soft white/Soft white (Style VW351007)

Something like that with tasteful back detail would be nice :)

Actually, this would do just fine.

The ring

Ever since the diamond necklace L gave me got itself misplaced (I stand by the fact that I didn’t lose it), he has been paranoid about me losing things. Expensive things, in particular.

He did buy me another diamond necklace the last time but has already stated very clearly that there will be NO REPLACMENT if I lose the engagement ring.

So he questions me at random moments with mock harshness…

L (when we meet): Where’s your ring?!
M (shows him ring): Here.
L: Good.

L (after dinner): Where’s your ring?!
M (shows him ring): Here.
L: Good.

L (when we arrive home): Where’s your ring?!
M (shows him ring): Here.
L: Good.

L (randomly while shopping): Where’s your ring?!
M (shows him ring): Here.
L: Good.

Before we left house this morning…

M (shoves ring in his face): LOOKIE! RING HERE!
L (looking disdainful): Eee, why do you like to show off?
M: -.-

Anyway, I’m not fazed by it. See if he can keep up with this for the next ten years.

*evil laugh*

Of ballrooms and wedding mags

I wish I had more time to write but I’ve been so caught up with the wedding venue-sourcing and catching up with friends over dinners after work. By the time I’m showered, it’s usually past 11 and staring at the laptop is the last thing I’d want to do.

We have narrowed down on a few dates with his folks but will probably need some time to finalise the venue. I can’t believe so many hotel ballrooms are either booked or tentatively booked all the way till early 2013. (I thought one year was sufficient but it seems the standard now is to book your venue one and a half to two years in advance!)

We have also done up up the first cut of the guest list and worked out the initial budget. It’s turning out to be bigger than we thought. Think we can’t make anymore new friends until after the wedding. Haha.

With all that, I figured I should also do some research on my own, especially when I have such specific ideas of how I wanted my gown to look like. Almost everything I need to know can actually be found online (blogs, forums, bridal websites, etc.) so technically, there is no need for bridal magazines. But nothing online beats flipping the glossy pages of a magazine, right? And now that I have license to look at (and buy) frou-frou magazines, I decided I would get one just for the heck of it.

Female Brides Lookbook
Female Brides Lookbook (Issue 3)

The compilation of local bridal studios and wedding gown, hairstyle and make-up lookbook turned out to be very useful. It even had a section on “real weddings” where we spotted our friends, C & L, who just got married recently! Pretty cool!

Anyway, as of now, we have meeting with a photographer scheduled for Friday and three back-to-back site visits on Saturday. Busy weekend ahead.

Hope we can finalise the venue soon.

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